So You Found My Blog. Good.

Written By Cade Raven

Welcome, you filthy gorgeous creature.

You stumbled your way to A Leatherboy’s Blog, and whether you’re here to learn, snoop, seek support, feel seen, or maybe just scratch an itch you can’t name yet – I’m glad you’re here.

I’m Cade. Leatherboy. Trans man. Crippled up badass. Proud Leatherboy, kink educator, and absolute fucking menace with a keyboard. I’ve got decades under my belt, both figuratively and literally, and this space is where I’m unpacking the life, the leather, and the love that keeps this world spinning.

This blog is part education, part my opinions on life based on my own lived experiences. It is part community building, and always 100% personal. You’ll find posts about:

  • Leather life and protocols

  • Polyamory, power exchange, and the wild joy of chosen family

  • Disability and kink – no sugarcoating, no inspiration porn

  • Grief, healing, contest culture, and all the messy in-between

  • Probably me bitching about something at some point

I co-founded the House of Raven with my Daddy, Shay, and we’re raising hell and holding hearts coast to coast. This space is for Leatherboys like me, and those who love us; old guards and new blood, tops and bottoms and everyone in between. If you’re here for real talk and raw honesty, pull up a chair.

If you’re looking to shame, argue, enforce rules without reason, or come at me with the “one true way” bullshit, please take the door you came in.

Stay dirty. Stay kind. Stay proud.

– Cade
House of Raven

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